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Claire Throssell narrowly missed seeing her sons by mere minutes on the day tragedy struck. Returning from work, she was unaware that her boys, Jack, aged 12, and Paul, aged nine, had just left to visit their father. Later that night, when police appeared at her door, her immediate fear was for what her estranged husband, Darren Sykes, had done. Sykes had deliberately set fire to his home while the boys were locked inside the attic, playing with a train set.
Despite previous evidence presented to the family court about Sykes’s abusive behavior towards both their sons and Claire herself, he was still granted unsupervised access visits. That very evening, the fire resulted in the death of Paul, and Jack succumbed a few days later in hospital, holding on to the belief that he had saved his younger brother. Carrying a heavy promise she made to Jack while he was in her arms, Claire has since dedicated over a decade to advocating for a change in the law concerning the presumption of parental involvement, a principle that assumes children benefit from contact with both parents after separation. This week, after 12 long years, she witnessed the Courts and Tribunals Bill pass through its final Commons stage, marking a significant legal victory in her campaign.
Reflecting on her past, Claire recognizes the pattern of control and manipulation that defined her relationship with Sykes. Initially overwhelmed by excessive displays of attention after they met at work, these evolved into insults, shouting, and physical abuse after their marriage and birth of their children. By 2014, Claire had separated and moved in with her mother, sharing custody of the boys. Social workers were told by the children that they feared their father; Paul bluntly described him as “pure nasty.” Claire had repeatedly warned authorities about Sykes’s capacity for harm, including statements revealing his disturbing remarks about having “nothing to live for” and understanding “fathers killing their children.” Although his access was restricted, the court still permitted unsupervised visits, including the one on the day of the fire. That morning, Claire fondly recalls sharing a tender farewell with the boys, exchanging familiar phrases inspired by Jack’s love for Toy Story. Later, Sykes lured the boys into the attic with promises of new trains, then ignited multiple fires, trapping them inside. Jack was found on the landing and was able to inform a rescuer that his father had deliberately caused the fire.
Jack’s bravery during those final moments has been a source of strength for Claire throughout her campaign. Even as he was dying, Jack was thinking of others and believed he had saved Paul’s life. Paul lived long enough to smile at Claire in Sheffield Children’s Hospital before passing away in her arms, while Jack died five days later in Manchester, on the very day he was scheduled to discuss his father’s access with family court officials. Claire is resolute that reforming the legal presumption of contact is vital to protecting children. She emphasizes that the change is “not aimed at good parents” and will not affect their rights, but will instead prevent automatic access to children by known abusers, rejecting the assumption that such access is inherently safe.
The move to remove this presumption did face opposition. Critics, including some Conservative MPs, argued that courts already possess the authority to restrict unsafe contact and warned that abolishing the presumption might lead to the state unjustly cutting off a parent, most often fathers, from their children. Nonetheless, Claire maintains that putting children’s safety first in decision-making is what truly matters. She also notes that in 2020, the government had been advised to urgently review the presumption of contact policy. Ultimately, the reform was passed, signaling a shift in family law.
This week, Claire sat in the Parliament gallery clutching a photo of her sons, describing the moment as “absolutely incredible.” She spoke of feeling their presence and reflected on the importance of hope, stating, “If you can’t hope that things are going to get better in your life then you’re in a dark, dark place indeed.” The personal toll of the campaign is stark; she candidly acknowledges moments of despair and loneliness. Despite the law now being changed, Claire’s home remains empty, and the noise of her children’s presence is a painful absence. For her, the transformation in legislation represents more than a legal victory—it is the enduring legacy of Jack and Paul. “All you want from your kids is to be proud of you and say ‘well done Mum,’” she said, underscoring the profound personal cost behind her fight for change
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