Powys farmer says abuse from dad was 'torture'

Powys farmer says abuse from dad was 'torture'

Tracy Lewis, who grew up on a farm in Llanbister, Powys, recalls a childhood filled with both her love for animals and the harsh reality of enduring physical and emotional abuse at the hands of her father. She recalls terrifying moments, such as being dragged out of bed by her hair as an eight-year-old to assist with lambing, while her mother — bruised and battered — urged her to help, fearing for their survival. Now 48 and a farmer herself, Tracy, along with other survivors of domestic abuse, is advocating for improved support systems for victims living in rural communities.

The isolation of rural life can conceal abuse, as Tracy explains. Despite the appearance of close-knit communities where neighbors help one another, what happens behind closed doors often remains hidden. Tracy shares that abuse was sometimes linked to their animals — punishments or emotional outbursts occurred in response to a sick or deceased creature. Her mother bore the brunt of the violence, striving to protect her children while being trapped in the confines of a generational family farm. Tracy points out that the dependence on family reputation, local markets, and trade can discourage victims from speaking out, as raising issues might jeopardize livelihoods.

The difficulties faced by rural domestic abuse victims were highlighted in a report by Rural Initiatives Tackling Abuse (RiTA), the UK’s first working group focused on rural inequality and domestic abuse. Released in May, the report urged the UK government to create a parliamentary commission dedicated to rural domestic abuse and ensure that government policies consider the specific challenges faced in rural areas. Dame Nicole Jacobs, the Domestic Abuse Commissioner for England and Wales, endorsed the report, emphasizing that perpetrators often exploit the unique realities of rural life. She stressed that if domestic abuse is to be tackled effectively, support services must be designed with rural victims in mind and adequately funded so that no individual is overlooked due to their location.

In Wales, where over 75% of the population lives in rural areas, similar concerns have been raised. Hayley Heard of Montgomeryshire Family Crisis Centre explained that isolation is often intensified by geographic distances, lack of transportation, and a fear of stigma in small communities, all of which hinder access to support. Covering an extensive and sparsely populated area, the centre struggles with funding shortages; a recent rejection of a £102,000 bid intended to support children and young people was described as “quite catastrophic.” Tracy believes that educating children about abuse—what it looks like and how to seek help—could play a vital role. Governments in the UK and Wales have pledged to improve services, acknowledging the unique barriers faced by rural victims to ensure everyone can access the support they need, regardless of where they live

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