Brynna mum's Facebook kidney plea prompts stranger to donate

Brynna mum's Facebook kidney plea prompts stranger to donate

A heartfelt social media plea from a woman in need of a kidney transplant has resulted in a life-saving donation from a complete stranger. Karen Davey, 41, who had tried every option available to her but still faced kidney failure, reached out to the public via Facebook, motivated by her desire not to leave her four children without a mother. Through this post, Gary Summerfield, a 60-year-old security guard, came across her story and soon discovered he was a match. In July, he donated one of his kidneys during an operation at the University Hospital of Wales in Cardiff.

Karen’s situation was particularly complex as this kidney transplant was her second major transplant. Ten years earlier, she had undergone a heart transplant after suffering a heart attack at age 31 during a football game involving her son. The medications needed post-heart transplant increased her risk of infections and led to kidney failure. “I knew the tablets I was taking following the heart transplant would damage the kidneys so they try and keep the dose as low as possible, but we always knew when I had the heart transplant that I would probably need a kidney transplant at some point, and that is hard to deal with mentally,” Karen explained. Living in Brynna, Rhondda Cynon Taf, she found herself in stage three kidney failure and, after finding none of her friends or family were suitable donors, she took the difficult step of posting her plea online.

Gary, who resides in Tredegar, Blaenau Gwent, was moved by Karen’s story and related to her through the mention of children. He said, “I saw Karen’s appeal and she mentioned the children, and I thought ‘Karen’s a similar age to my daughter and her youngest child is the same age as my grandson,’ and I just thought it’s terrible for the children.” Motivated by empathy, he considered how he would feel if it were his own daughter and decided it would be selfish not to help. Despite never having met Karen before, Gary volunteered to undergo the rigorous testing required for kidney donation, which included compatibility and psychological evaluations, blood tests, and other medical exams. The transplant surgery lasted six hours, and Gary expressed no regret about his decision, describing donating a kidney as “simply up there with getting married and having my children, it’s one of the top three things in my life.”

Karen, now feeling “100 times better” following the transplant, and her husband Matthew expressed profound gratitude toward Gary. Matthew remarked, “Everyone knows what’s going on in the world at the moment, it’s a horrible place at times, but it really does give you hope that there is kindness in the world.” He emphasized the family’s enduring appreciation for the gift of life Gary has given them, stating they could never repay him. Karen added, “The fact that somebody came forward and has gone through all the testing, because it’s a lot of testing. For somebody to put their body through that and having a kidney taken out for somebody that they don’t know, it’s mind-blowing, I’m just so grateful.” Their son Brandon, 17, also expressed relief and hope, saying, “She’s looked better now than she has in a long while… It can be scary, obviously, when she’s going into surgeries, but you just have to have hope. It’s just amazing there’s still good people out there.”

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