With Christmas fast approaching, there are plenty of things that could go wrong during the festivities. Although etiquette is crucial at this time of year, how exactly should we navigate potentially awkward moments?
One common issue is receiving a present you don’t like. According to Rupert Wesson from professional coaching company Debrett’s, it depends on how well you know the gift-giver. You can tell some people that the gift isn’t for you, but with others, you might have to lie and say you like it. However, it’s important not to make a funny face when opening a present; instead, you should pretend that you like it and mention how useful it is. If all else fails, it’s okay to give an unwanted present to charity or re-gift it for someone else in the future.
Christmas can be expensive, and some families might struggle with the cost of the festivities. In that case, you can create a “Christmas pot” that everyone contributes to ahead of the big day, or ask each family member to bring an item of food or drink. There’s no shame in informing your guests that you need their help, says Mr Wesson.
It’s also important to stay positive during the day and avoid certain topics that could lead to arguments. Don’t take it personally if someone complains, and try to change the subject if things get heated. If there’s tension between guests, address it upfront when making plans.
If you have dietary requirements, let your hosts know ahead of time. They can plan accordingly, but be empathetic if someone makes a non-cordial remark. Desist from saying “thank you” too much to the host as it loses its value, but try to show your appreciation in other ways like compliments or carrying out small favors. Finally, don’t freak out if your card or gift arrives late because you can always send a message to the recipient.
Christmas is all about preparation and proper planning, but if something goes wrong, try not to worry too much. Remember the golden rule: treat others as you would like to be treated, and everything will work out just fine
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