Gareth Southgate: We need to teach boys differently from girls to get best out of them

Gareth Southgate: We need to teach boys differently from girls to get best out of them

Sir Gareth Southgate has called for a reconsideration of how boys are educated, emphasizing the need to recognize the “fundamental differences” between boys and girls. The former England football manager spoke to the BBC about the widespread difficulties young males face today, including struggles related to education, employment, mental health, and identity. According to Southgate, addressing these challenges effectively will likely require a distinct approach tailored specifically to boys.

In a conversation on BBC Radio 4’s Today programme, Southgate highlighted that those who have worked with young people understand there are inherent differences between the sexes. He suggested that maximizing potential may involve educating and developing young men differently than young women. The 55-year-old also produced a documentary exploring how young men, particularly those who underperform at school and have difficulty securing work, often experience a chain reaction of negative outcomes, such as poor mental health and a sense of lost identity.

Southgate voiced concerns about the influence of online figures who may deceive young men into equating success solely with wealth or dominance. Touching on societal pressures, he pointed to persistent expectations on boys and the negative effects of underachievement at school, which can lead to behavioral issues and decreased employability. Citing a recent study led by former Labour minister Alan Milburn, Southgate noted rising numbers of young people not in education, employment, or training (Neets), with particular problems disproportionately affecting boys. While acknowledging ongoing efforts to empower girls, Southgate stressed, “we’ve taken our eyes off some of the issues that men face through their lives,” urging a balanced focus on both genders’ challenges.

To illustrate these issues, Southgate met with three young men in Middlesbrough struggling to find employment. One of them, 20-year-old Taylor, shared how months of job searching without feedback had taken a toll on his self-esteem and mental health, leading him to rely on alcohol. Taylor confessed, “I just wanted to go out, get drunk with my mates and pretty much forget about everything,” and admitted feeling anger and despair to the point of not wanting to be around anymore. Encouraged by Southgate during the documentary, Taylor began to regain his confidence, with the former manager emphasizing the importance of positive encouragement and the need for more mentorship programs nationwide. Southgate expressed hope that a “story of hope” could emerge through community support and guidance for young people navigating setbacks

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