'A good meal and a good poo': Kate Winslet describes how she dealt with media intrusion

'A good meal and a good poo': Kate Winslet describes how she dealt with media intrusion

Kate Winslet has opened up about the intense and invasive media scrutiny she faced after her rise to fame following her role as Rose in James Cameron’s 1997 blockbuster, *Titanic*. She described the experience as “horrific,” revealing that paparazzi constantly trailed her, her phone was tapped, and people went as far as going through her rubbish and questioning local shopkeepers about her purchases in an attempt to uncover details about her diet.

Reflecting on that difficult period, Winslet shared that she coped with the intrusion by finding comfort in simple, grounding activities. In an interview on BBC Radio 4’s *Desert Island Discs*, she mentioned how “a good meal, a shared conversation, a nice cup of coffee, a bit of Radiohead and a good poo” helped her get through the media pressure. These small but meaningful moments brought some relief amid the overwhelming attention.

During the filming of *Titanic*, when she was in her early twenties, Winslet struggled with her body image and mental wellbeing. Although making the film was an incredible experience, the worldwide fame it brought caught her off guard. She recalled facing negative remarks about her appearance from a young age, including being called “blubber” at primary school and receiving discouraging comments from a drama teacher who said she would be limited to the “fat girl parts.” Between ages 15 and 19, she experienced unhealthy dieting habits, at one point “barely eating.” Once *Titanic* was released, she was shocked by the harsh and abusive headlines accompanying images of her in the media.

Moreover, Winslet revealed how magazine photos were often heavily retouched without her consent, creating unrealistic images of her body. Speaking to Lauren Laverne, she expressed disbelief at the altered pictures, which did not reflect her true appearance, and emphasized she did not want any young woman to look at those images and aspire to an unattainable ideal. “I don’t look like this. My stomach isn’t flat like that. My legs are not that long, my boobs are not that big. What? My arms aren’t that toned. What the hell?” she said.

Later, Winslet spoke candidly about enduring media scrutiny during her divorce from her second husband, director Sam Mendes, in 2010. She described paparazzi following her in New York City along with her two small children, all while the press sought explanations for their separation. Her approach was to remain silent and focused: “You just keep your mouth closed, you put your head down, and you keep walking. And you try and put your hands over your children’s ears. You lean on your friends, you just keep going.”

In more recent times, Winslet has commented on the ongoing challenges women face in the film industry. While some pressures have evolved, she believes there is still much to change regarding how female filmmakers are treated and spoken to. As she made her debut as a director with *Goodbye June*, a film written by her son Joe Anders, she shared examples of patronizing remarks she has encountered, such as being told, “Don’t forget to be confident in your choices.” Winslet’s response to such comments is blunt and humorous: “Shut up,” she said, pointing out that confidence is something she has never lacked and that male directors wouldn’t be subjected to similar advice

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